Showing posts with label family weekends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family weekends. Show all posts

Tuesday, 30 October 2012

Finding our bliss

This weekend was a great big beautiful sigh of relief. I don't know what we did differently, to be honest. Maybe it was the clocks changing. The knowledge that autumn was in full flow. Maybe it was the crazy busy week we'd all had that forced us to slow down, almost to a stop come Saturday morning. But this weekend...just worked. We had no plans, didn't see any friends, no diy projects to finish off, no house viewings to contend with. We just snuggled down, as a family and giggled and tickled our way through the weekend.


House work was done in fits and starts, naps were taken and hearty bowls of chilli eaten. Films were watched, lego build and whole villages with intricate railway lines designed, built and demolished. 


For once, we didn't care that putting fresh linen on all the beds was a job that lasted all day. We just went with it. Little hands were eager to help out, which may have prolonged the process, but made it so much more fun!


By Sunday night, we felt renewed in energy, spirit and as a family. This weekend was exactly what we needed. It reminded me of the awesome boys I am blessed to have, all 3 of them. 

Seriously, who could resist an invitation to snuggle under a duvet at 3pm from this little guy?


Hope you all had good weekends too! What did you all get up to?

Tuesday, 15 May 2012

Frugal family fun

Waiting for the sugar rush of lunch to subside...
A wise person once told me that boys are like puppies. They need lots of loving attention, lots of food and even more exercise. It's pretty much the 3 rules we live by with 2 puppies small boys.

But what to do with 2 puppies boys in South London that doesn't cost an arm and a leg? Now, if it were up to the 6 year old, we'd probably spend most weekends at Legoland. But frugal it ain't (unless you cash in Tesco clubcard vouchers, which is our only favourite way to do it).

Most weekends you can find us at a National Trust property. We have 5 fabulous properties within a 30 minute drive of home. Double that if we want to venture a bit further. Family membership costs us £70 a year by direct debit but Quidco often have cashback deals making it cheaper.

Now for the maths

To visit Chartwell, our closest and probably one of our favourite properties, it would cost us £28.50 as a family. Some properties are cheaper than this (nearby Emmets Garden is only £14 to visit as a family), but it only takes 3 visits to Chartwell for us to make a saving on our family membership. Given that we visit a property at least twice a month pretty much all year round, we save in the region of £700 a year on entry fees. In the height of summer, we sometimes go "Trusting" every weekend.

It's the gardens and grounds of these stately homes that attract us the most. Big open spaces for the boys to roam around in, a good dose of wildlife and the odd history lesson thrown in if they show interest. The National Trust also have a great programme of free events. Chartwell usually has a 'Boats and Bands' day (Wartime Weekend it's called this year) during the summer where a brass band plays on the lawn while model boat enthusiasts show off their miniature works of art on the lake. All the staff and volunteers dress up in their finest 1940s regalia and the atmosphere is brilliant. Boys + water + model boats + unlimited sandwiches = easy family fun.

We rarely venture into the properties themselves (plenty of time for that when the bull in a china shop tendencies wear off). Knole is the exception - the lure of the roaring fire in the great hall on a chilly autumn morning is too great to resist. But on the whole, we stick to roaming the grounds.

Rolling down hills at Chartwell

What's wrong with the good old fashioned outdoors?

Absolutely nothing. But the National Trust properties just really appeal to us. There's clean toilets for easier nappy changes, treasure/bug/plant hunts for those that tire of simply charging around an open space, many are buggy friendly so little people can snooze after lunch while the rest of the family explore and there's plenty of interesting features to keep the grown-ups/grandparents occupied without the little people getting bored. We all love the kitchen garden at Chartwell for example - the children love the scarecrows and bug hotels while I like to have a good nosy at what the gardeners have planted where. And we ALL like to play "imagine if we lived here".

There's also the added benefit of having access to a fresh pot of tea and a scone if we're feeling decadent enough to venture into the tea rooms/restaurant. But for us, half the fun is packing a picnic and enjoying the fresh air. Egg dip dip sandwiches are of course essential.

Climbing trees at Wakehurst Place


This isn't a sponsored post, I just love the National Trust and think it's fantastic value for money!

Thursday, 7 July 2011

This weekend

:: will be filled with family times, happy times, together times

:: we will picnic with egg dip dip sandwiches!

:: we will sit on a rug on the hill behind Chartwell and just be together

:: we'll go searching for early blackberries, planning, cooking and tasting their tangy sweetness

:: we'll sing songs in the car and eat ice-cream in the garden

:: we'll giggle and tickle and laugh and sigh

:: we'll hold each tight and count our blessings

:: (there will also probably be squabbles and tantrums but they don't need to be planned)

What are doing this weekend?

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